Are you spending enough quality time with your children? And how much is enough?

 Many parents do not spend enough quality time with their children, and there really is no answer to "how much is enough". Every child is different and has different needs.

We all know spending quality time is important, but it may be more important than you think. As we get older, we start to remember less and less about our childhood. It is interesting how we remember bits and pieces of certain places, certain people.

One thing that seems to have a lasting affect are memories of quality time spent with friends and family. Even something that may have occured only once can hold a special place in your heart. The point is, you may want to think twice before you say "not now, daddy's busy or mommy had a hard day."  

A game of catch, or trip to the park may seem like a chore for busy parents these days. But for your child it may be one of the things your child will remember for a very long time.

Research also shows that children learn much more in an informal setting.  You can also learn a great deal about your child by observing them and listening to what they have to say.

Here are a few tips on ways to spend quality time with your children, that won't put a dent into your wallett.

Eat Breakfast and Dinner together - It seems like family dinners are a thing of the past.

Get your kids more involved with projects around the house. It wont seem like a chore if you are doing it together.

Find a hobby that you and your child both enjoy. If your child enjoys science, grab a few books from the library or buy a small science project and do it together. You will be surprised by what you did not know:)

It may sound like simple parenting and in actuality, it is. The more quality time you spend with your children the less likely they are to have low self esteem, disciplinary issues, and depression. You will build trust, loyalty and togetherness.

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Keith Cannone

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